Similar, but I'm at least willing to concede that I'm bisexual (mentally at least). I've never been with another, but I've fantasized times about it. Sometimes it's straight up, Naughty wife wants sex tonight Waynesboro sometimes I'm cross-dressed as a little slut getting pounded on and draining every last drop of white hot cum from a big stiff cock, and still others I'm taking control of a nice petite cross-dresser and/or letting her work me over. They all work for me and result in some very satisfying orgasms. It's up to you, and only you know what your wife's reaction could be to letting her in on the secret. However, there's nothing stopping you from turning off the lights and fantasizing that your wife is another. It's like playing air guitar only with an imaginary cock instead. Get her to masturbate, and as she does it, gently run your hand over her hand as it rubs her pussy and pretend it's a nice hard set of balls turn her wrist and forearm into a thick hard cock. Try slowly rubbing up and down on it as she's doing her thing, pretending that your stroking your imaginary partner's cock. When she comes, pretend it's your partner reaching an orgasm! Talk dirty "mmmm, yes get that cum all over the place yes " and keep stroking! When she's ridding your cock (you're on your back), pretend you're the one being fucked lift your legs up and roll your hips in such a way as to open yourself up for anal. You'll feel it! The reverse is you're fucking your partner from the bottom. When on your side, take her form behind and fantasize about fucking your partner instead. A nice tight piece of ass don't forget to play air guitar with that cock! This also works with doggy-style! When she's sucking your cock, duh that one's easy, as is the handjob. On telling your wife opening up (slowly) might not be as bad as you think. It could turn out that she's got similar fantasies about being with another women.